Everyone has them. These are little actions, phrases, or tendencies that set people into a rage. The lolita community seems to have a collection of pet peeves that will get you labeled an ita. These can be frivolous, tedious things like a skirt being an inch too short or rather large no-nos such as wearing anime cosplay accessories - chobit or cat ears.
Pet peeve #1: Climbing buildings
This also includes railings, fences, walls or any such structural surfaces. We have all seen group pictures where at least one or two people are attempting to scale walls as if they were Spiderman. You aren't. Whether you are trying to portray a doll, Victorian child, look sweet, or be elegant this action describes none of them.
I am sure mothers or governesses of upper class Victorian child would never permit them to do this. And if it did happen I am sure punishment was issued as soon as they returned home. No mother would allow their well dressed child to act like a uncivilized street urchin.
Also why would you possibly damage or scruff such expensive clothes or something that you or a seamstress labored to make?
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